I’m someone who never flinches from telling people I like or love them. I strongly believe you must say it while you still can. There’s no guarantee of tomorrow.
For the longest time, I’ve been drawn to psychology and the science of human behavior. It amazes me, the amount of research and understanding around how we think, feel, and act.
But what if we simply followed our hearts?
What if not everything needed to make sense?
What if we loved people as they are, without expecting them to feel the same way?
When I look back, I’m grateful for some of the most difficult people I’ve met. It wasn’t easy—navigating their moods, the ifs and buts, all of it. But for some reason, I stayed. Maybe it’s just who I am, I don’t fully understand it myself.
Of course, there are a few I’ve had to close doors on, after being tested to the brim.
Still, I wonder, are relationships really that complicated, or do we make them so? What if we looked at them more from the heart than the mind?
We get only one life. Can’t we live it fully and consciously? There will be challenges, moments that break us. But maybe they’re also leading us closer to the right people.
Love feels simple to me now. It comes when it has to. No need to chase.
I’m not saying this is the right way, just my way, shaped by experience. There was a time when saying “I love you” felt like a Western thing. Even now, it’s not something everyone says easily.
But I’ve always said it when I’ve truly felt it, and I still do. And in some ways, it has built relationships that once felt impossible. Sometimes, the most difficult people turn out to be the most genuine.
Maybe there’s no need to overthink the whys and what's. If something feels right in your heart, go for it. There’s no telling what tomorrow holds.
And if that makes you seem a little crazy or not so smart, so be it. It’s your life.
Love and be loved.
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